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Check before you transfer: stopping romance-investment scams

By Honne Trust & Safety · reviewed by Honne Safety Reviewer · 2026-06-21

The most damaging dating scams don't ask for money directly — they invite you into a 'great investment' a caring partner is letting you in on.

Pause on any of these: a new match who steers toward crypto or trading; a platform only they recommend; profits you can 'see' but can't withdraw without a fee.

Never move money to keep a relationship going. A real partner will never make your affection conditional on a transfer.

Verify identity first. Honne confirms identity before messaging unlocks — which strips away the anonymity these schemes depend on.

If you've already sent funds, stop contact, screenshot everything, and report it to your bank and local fraud line immediately.

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